Stay consistent without burnout.

I help ambitious women turn discipline into a lifestyle — with realistic plans that fit your life, not the other way around. Sustainable plan → sustainable journey.

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Programs

Ways to Work Together

Built for high-performing women who want to feel in control again — of their time, body, and habits. This program isn’t about motivation; it’s about regaining confidence in the promises you make to yourself, one action at a time.

One hour. Full clarity. Immediate action.

This is your reset session — a focused 1:1 call to organize your goals, clear the noise, and create a simple plan you can actually follow. We’ll look at your routines, priorities, and mindset to rebuild a structure that fits your real life — not the ideal one.

You’ll leave with a personalized action plan, specific next steps, and renewed motivation to follow through.

Because when clarity meets structure, consistency follows.

Your structured restart. Four weeks to rebuild momentum.
This program is for you if you’ve lost consistency and need a guided framework to get back on track — without overwhelm.

Together, we’ll focus on:
• Re-establishing your routines and non-negotiables.
• Reconnecting with your goals.
• Building SELF-accountability week by week, so results feel natural again.
It’s not a quick fix — it’s your comeback plan.

Four weeks to remember what it feels like to follow through.

The 8 weeks Platinum Plan

The full accountability experience — structure, support, and measurable results. This is my most complete 1:1 coaching program, designed to create lasting TRANSFORMATION.

You’ll get:
• Weekly accountability calls to review progress and challenges.
• Personalized plans for routines, nutrition awareness, and time management.
• Continuous 24/7 support between sessions to keep you on track.

It’s a FULL RESET — for your habits, mindset, and confidence.

Because real LASTING change doesn’t happen overnight — it happens every day you stay accountable.

Accountability meets performance — in the workplace.

I design tailored Corporate Workshops and Speaking Sessions to help teams and leaders perform sustainably — without burnout, overwhelm, or constant pressure.
Each session blends mindset and structure from The 3P Flow Journal™, helping participants:

  • Strengthen focus, time management, and personal accountability.
  • Reconnect with motivation and purpose at work.
  • Build consistent habits that enhance productivity and well-being.

Available in English and Italian, delivered in-person or online for teams, HR programs, and corporate events.

Because a high-performing team starts with individuals who know how to stay on track.

ABOUT PAMELA

International Corporate Lawyer & Accountability and Performance Coach

I’m an international corporate lawyer with over 15 years of experience advising multinational companies across Europe, Africa, and the Middle East — and a certified Accountability & Performance Coach helping busy women build consistency, confidence, and structure without burnout.
My dual path reflects two sides of the same mindset: discipline and purpose.
As a lawyer, I guide organizations through complex transactions, governance, and cross-border strategy.
As a coach, I apply the same strategic discipline to personal growth — helping ambitious women create sustainable systems that support their goals, not drain them.
Through Accountable with Pam and my method, The 3P Flow Journal™ (Plan • Practice • Progress), I show that success doesn’t require working more — it requires working smarter.
Because whether you’re leading a team or leading yourself, the structure you build determines how far you go.

What Coaching with Me Looks Like

Built for women who don’t need more willpower — they need a system that matches their ambition.

Reclaim your structure, rebuild your discipline, and finally feel proud of your consistency!

Happy Clients

Checkout Case Studies

Every client’s story begins with the same question: “Where do I start?” Through structure, consistency, and compassionate accountability, each of them found a rhythm that worked — not just a plan that looked good on paper.

Lea: Finding Balance After a Major Change

Profile:
38 years old, Finance Director, mother of two.

Challenge:
After a period of intense professional and personal stress, Lea had completely lost her rhythm. She felt drained, exhausted, and convinced she no longer had the energy to start over.

Allison: From High Performance to Sustainability

Profile:
31 years old, lawyer at an international firm.

Challenge:
Unpredictable hours, relentless pace, and a constant feeling of “never doing enough.” Her discipline was strong, but balance and personal time were missing.

Sara: Turning Consistency Into Confidence

Profile:
42 years old, hospitality professional, constantly on the move — often driving, traveling, and dining out for work.

Challenge:
Excellent professional results, but zero time for herself. Irregular schedules and long days had erased all personal routines.

Louise: From Discomfort to Confidence

Profile:
34 years old, marketing manager in the retail sector, expat living in Dubai.

Challenge:
Louise had gained weight in recent years and felt stuck.
Despite being highly driven at work, she felt uncomfortable going to the gym — afraid of judgment, she kept postponing and eventually gave up entirely.

3P Flow Journal™

The 3P Flow Journal™ — the first conversational accountability method

The 3P Flow Journal™ guides your personal flow — Plan, Practice, and Progress — so your actions align with your real life. Every page helps you reflect, plan, and act consistently, even during high-pressure weeks.

Plan

Weekly structure tailored to workload, family, travel. Clear priorities. No all-or-nothing rules.

Practice

Small repeatable actions. Trackers and reviews that turn intention into routine.

Progress

Review, adapt, improve. Cut the friction. Build strong basics before you grow.

FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

I didn’t leave law — I expanded my toolkit. After years in demanding corporate roles, I saw how many professionals — myself included — struggled to sustain high performance without losing balance. Coaching became a natural extension of my professional mindset: helping others build systems that work as well as legal frameworks do.

Accountability coaching is a structured partnership designed to help you follow through on your goals — not just set them. It’s not about motivation or advice; it’s about building systems that make consistency inevitable and always having a plan B.
We start by defining your priorities and translating them into daily, realistic actions. Each day and week, we review your progress together — what worked, what didn’t, and what needs to change. You receive clear next steps, measurable goals, and check-ins that keep you focused even when life gets busy.
It’s a process that combines structure, reflection, and support — so you don’t have to rely on willpower alone.
Over time, you rebuild trust in your own discipline, and the things you used to “start over every Monday” finally become part of your routine.

I developed The 3P Flow Journal™ (Plan • Practice • Progress) to help my clients stop starting over every Monday.
It’s not a motivational diary — it’s a practical accountability system that combines planning, action, and reflection in one flow.
Our conversations are not random check-ins; they’re focused sessions where we translate your goals into specific commitments, track your progress, and identify what needs to shift week by week. The conversation itself becomes the framework — simple, direct, and tailored to your real life.
Within a few days, that process delivers a clear plan: you always know what to focus on, and never feel lost between “I know what I should do” and “I’m actually doing it.”
It’s a system that brings discipline back into alignment with your lifestyle — sustainable, realistic, and personal.

For busy women who already know what to do but struggle to stay consistent — professionals, founders, or mothers who want to regain control of their lives without burning out.

It’s not for those looking for quick fixes, motivational pep talks, or someone to do the work for them.
It’s not therapy, and it’s not about perfection.
It’s for women who are ready to take responsibility for their progress — and want a structured, supportive partner to help them stay consistent and accountable along the way.

My coaching is not designed to treat or manage eating disorders.
If you’re currently dealing with, or recovering from, an eating disorder, it’s essential to work with qualified medical and therapeutic professionals.

Absolutely. All sessions are 100% confidential and governed by professional ethics.

All sessions are held online (Zoom or Google Meet). Depending on your program, you’ll have weekly or bi-weekly calls, plus structured follow-up via WhatsApp or email.

I provide accountability frameworks that may include nutrition and fitness tracking when relevant, but I don’t offer medical or therapeutic advice. My role is to help you stay consistent with the plan that fits your lifestyle.

You can book a free consultation via WhatsApp or Calendly. Together we’ll review your goals and decide the best structure for your needs.

WhatsApp: +971569573583

Calendly: https://calendly.com/pameladibenedetto/free-consultation-call

Payments are made in euros or AED by bank transfer. Details are shared at booking.

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Lea: Finding Balance After a Major Change

Profile:
38 years old, Finance Director, mother of two.

Challenge:
After a period of intense professional and personal stress, Lea had completely lost her rhythm. She felt drained, exhausted, and convinced she no longer had the energy to start over.

Goal:
To restart gradually — learning not to give up when life got unpredictable, and to re-plan based on the time and energy available rather than chasing perfection.

Process:
We began with The 3P Flow Journal™ to build sustainable, non-punitive micro-habits: regular schedules, balanced meals without restriction, and small daily moments of decompression.
Over the 8 weeks of the Platinum Plan, Lea learned to plan realistically and manage setbacks without seeing them as failures or “new Mondays.”

Result:

  • Improved energy and sleep quality

  • Lost 5 cm around the waist in a gradual, sustainable way

  • Regained a sense of control and self-confidence, without performance anxiety

Today, Lea maintains her results through the Accountability Light program, continuing weekly check-ins to reinforce the consistency she built over time.

Allison: From High Performance to Sustainability

Profile:
31 years old, lawyer at an international firm.

Challenge:
Unpredictable hours, relentless pace, and a constant feeling of “never doing enough.” Her discipline was strong, but balance and personal time were missing.

Goal:
To create a sustainable routine that could support her demanding career without compromising health or well-being.

Process:
We applied the 3P Flow Journal™ method:

  • Plan: define realistic daily priorities aligned with professional demands.

  • Practice: automate key moments — lunch break, movement, sleep — and optimize time management.

  • Progress: reflect weekly on results, stress levels, and areas for improvement.

Result:

  • Greater energy stability and mental focus

  • Mastery over her time, no longer dependent on “motivation”

  • Better work-life boundaries and personal balance

  • No relapses into “chaotic periods” for over three months

Sara: Turning Consistency Into Confidence

Profile:
42 years old, hospitality professional, constantly on the move — often driving, traveling, and dining out for work.

Challenge:
Excellent professional results, but zero time for herself. Irregular schedules and long days had erased all personal routines.

Goal:
To rebuild discipline and regain structure, even within a fast-paced, unpredictable lifestyle.

Process:
During the initial Power Hour, we identified where she was “losing control” — impulsive food choices, lack of movement, and no real decompression time.
With The 3P Flow Journal™, we created a flexible yet measurable plan built on three daily habits, reviewed weekly based on her travel schedule and results.

Result:

  • Greater awareness and more intentional daily choices

  • Consistent movement routine 4 times per week (at home or in hotels)

  • More stable energy and improved sleep

  • Feeling of control even during hectic weeks

  • Renewed trust in her own discipline

Louise: From Discomfort to Confidence

Profile:
34 years old, marketing manager in the retail sector, expat living in Dubai.

Challenge:
Louise had gained weight in recent years and felt stuck.
Despite being highly driven at work, she felt uncomfortable going to the gym — afraid of judgment, she kept postponing and eventually gave up entirely.
Her lack of confidence started to affect other areas of her life.

Goal:
To rebuild self-confidence, develop a consistent workout routine, and learn to take care of herself without guilt or pressure to be perfect.

Process:
We began with a Power Hour to identify the real obstacle: fear of judgment and the habit of quitting after a few days.
With The 3P Flow Journal™, we created a gradual, realistic plan:

  • Plan: replace “work out five times a week” with small daily actions (8,000 steps, 20-minute home workouts).

  • Practice: establish a morning ritual to feel in control from the start of the day.

  • Progress: record small wins and celebrate progress, focusing on consistency rather than the scale.

Result:

  • Lost 4 kg in six weeks, sustainably

  • Regular workouts three times per week (gym and home)

  • Improved body confidence and self-image

  • More energy and calm in daily decisions

Today, Louise continues with the Accountability Light program, working not just on her body but on trust — the kind that comes from keeping promises to yourself.